| Location | Lena Illinois |
| Age | 21 years |
| Cause of Death | Accident |
| Date of Birth | 18/02/1987 |
| Date of Death | 23/11/2008 |
| Visitors | 808 since 12/11/2009 |
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How do I begin to tell you about our son? He is everything to us. A.J. is an only child with all the spirit a person could have. His full name is Allan John Pax. He was the person we all depended on. If he said he'd be there he was. He made you laugh till your belly hurt, he was as kind and gentle as anyone you'll ever know. He would give you the world and then some. He is a friend to all and to all he will be missed. A.J. lived life to the fulliest...he did more in his short time here then we as his parents could begin to do. He was not afraid to live. We wish we were so like him..he has so much going on. The one thing I admired the most about A.J. is that he was not judgemental. He found and saw the best in every one. I so wish we had that in us. We are trying so hard to be like our son who is someone we truly respect and look up to. We all should.
The hard part for us is just when life was beginning it ended. Just doesn't seem fair but what in life is?
As promised by you, we will see you tomorrow A.J.!
Love you with all we are.
Mom & Dad
Waiting at the Door
I can’t explain so deep inside
The very fabric of my soul
Only a heart that grieves such loss
Can ever truly understand
It’s like you’re waiting at the door
Until a loved one comes back home
You feel a longing in your heart
When they appear the longing stops
But in a loss that never ends
You’re always standing at that door
You feel the longing in the breeze
So incomplete and never filled
I cannot find the words to say
Just what it’s like to want forever
Never seeing them again
Just always waiting at the door
Alison Mary Dunn
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for your parents
a poem i found and thought you might like for AJ.
We think of you with love today but that is nothing new,
we thought about you yesterday and days before that too.
We think of you in silence though we often speak your name,
but all we have is our memories and your picture in a frame.
Your memories are keepsakes with which we will never part,
God has you as a angel, we have you in our hearts
Thinking of your family, with sympathy. x.xx.
GOOD NIGHT A,J
Softly the leaves of memory fall ♥
Gently I gather and treasure them all ♥
Unseen, unheard, you are always near ♥
Still loved, still missed, so very dear. ♥
No length of time can take away,♥
My thoughts of you from day to day, ♥
Whatever else I fail to do,♥
I never fail to think of you. ♥ LOVE THERESA X

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